Showing posts with label world cultures. Show all posts
Showing posts with label world cultures. Show all posts

November 16, 2009

Bridging the Gap

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A Korean guy approached me in a coffeeshop yesterday afternoon, asking if he could sit down and chat for a few minutes. With the use of a cellphone translator, we were able to have twenty minutes of conversation in broken English and bits 'n' pieces of Korean. To some, this situation would potentially seem very awkward, but I've become quite accustomed to random interactions like these in Korea... where a child or adult decides that meeting me at a bus stop, in an elevator, or on a street corner, is a great opportunity to practice their English!
The craziest part about yesterday's conversation, though, was that at the end of it, this guy confides in me that this is the first time he's ever spoken to a foreigner. He's never traveled, lives in the same town he grew up in, and works as a waiter in a local Korean restaurant. This was the very first time he's ever spoken with an individual outside of his own cultural background and ethnic descent! How cool is that? I felt so privileged that I got to be someone's first.
Do you remember the first time you spoke with someone of another ethnic background? I'm guessing that most of my readers come from such ethnically diverse societies, potentially even within their own multi-generational family histories, that such a "first" is difficult to imagine! How about the first time you attempted conversation with someone whose language was different from your own?

October 11, 2009

A Korean Wedding

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I went to a Korean wedding today! One of my friends from work, Ceilia, got married to "her skinny man" (my nickname for him.) Everyone from the school was invited and in attendance, and we all ate dinner together after the ceremony, so it was quite a fun morning! When we arrived, we were directed to a tiny room where the bride sat perched like a frosted white cupcake on a settee, and people could take pictures of her, or have their picture taken with her. Poor thing, she looked so nervous! I did not envy her. People in the wedding hall lobby were milling about, meeting and greeting one another, mostly in business attire. To me, it looked more like a funeral than a wedding. A lot of black, and not too much festive color to be seen anywhere! It is not traditional in Korean culture to give gifts to the bride and groom, but rather to give money in a white envelope, which was collected by a group of hired staff at a long desk in the lobby. Friends and coworkers usually give about $50, family members give more. The ceremony had started before everyone was seated, in fact, there weren't enough seats for everyone, so most of our crew hung about near a side wall. The flowers, candles, and cake decorations were all fake/plastic, but looked elegant, and there was a giant photographic poster of the bride and groom in casual clothes on one wall (which was far too cheesy for my personal taste, but whatev.) The whole decor had a bit of a "wedding factory" feel, not so much the carefully planned and chosen details typical in weddings at home, where each wedding denotes the personal style of the couple. We listened to their vows and their parents words to each of them (that was the most beautiful part to me, the mothers were dressed in traditional Korean hanbok, and each gave their parting words of advice and wisdom to their son/daughter) and then a song was sung to them by a friend (a bit Disney-esque, to be honest.) Afterwards we all took group pictures together... first the family members, then the bride's friends, then the groom's friends. (The bride had a lot more friends than the groom, which was kind of funny to me, especially when he started calling up some of her friends to stand with him and fill in some obvious gaps.) As we left, there was another wedding party coming in to set up...

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September 6, 2009

The Cultural Cringe

There are three things I don't think I can ever get used too, no matter how well-adjusted I've become to Korean culture over time...
1. Children that bow to me. I'm all for respecting your elders, but something about these little guys bowing their heads to me, makes me very uncomfortable. It always catches me off-guard, whether it happens on a street corner or in a school hallway... I get the cultural cringe. I do admit I've started bowing to my elders here, out of respect for them and this cultural custom, but I guess I just don't feel worthy of such a display of public submission myself. I'd rather a high-five or a "Hi, teacher!" or even just a shy smile, but some of these children have been taught to be very respectful of their teachers. Others, of course, are little rugrats, of similar breed to those found in every other country I've visited! Don't worry, there's always an element of craziness in my classroom.
2. The parasol-carrying women.
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Au contraire to the deep, nut-brown tan craze of white North Americans, Korean women do their utmost to protect their skin. It's probably a healthier way to go, but carrying these frilly sun shields reminds me of an 18th-century English novel... I've even seen skin-whitening sunscreen and face bleaching creams here! I am personally quite fond of the intoxicating feeling of sunbeams kissing my face, and will probably pay for it, in later life. I get scolded by women here for standing in the sun instead of the shade at bus stops! It's really quite amusing. But hey, I've always thought wrinkles were beautiful, they are like storylines, displayed on faces.
3. No seatbelts. I always do a double-take to see babies bouncing on their father's knee while he drives the car, three monkeys (children) tumbling around in the back seat, or two crammed together on the front passenger seat, no belts. It just amazes me, especially with the number of traffic accidents around here. How many times do we have to make mistakes before we learn from them? Seatbelts, people... seatbelts!!!

June 14, 2009

An Interesting Fact

I used to just tan straight-up brown like Pocahontas in the summahtime... now i'm getting freckles. Aaaaaand lots of them!
Ok, so maybe that's not interesting to you. Did you know that a popular Korean dish is live squid? Like still moving, squirming-in-your-mouth live squid? I haven't sampled it yet.


March 30, 2009

It Takes Two

Hi! Just wanted to share with you a fashion trend I've been observing here in South Korea....



Couples sporting matching outfits,
right down to their carefully-planned accessories.


All of these photos were taken on the same day, in the same town.
It's a bit too "cute" for my personal taste, but they love it here!


Mmmm... knee socks, stilettos and rugby shirt combo... AWESOME! (Haha... Islay?!!)

Some are slightly more subtle...

...at least varying the colors a bit!

And some couples are just plain outta control!!!
(Just kidding, those are my friends, Dan and Lindsay, from Toronto.)

March 20, 2009

Sidestreet Signage


It's a colorful world in which we live!

March 14, 2009

Happy White Day


It is White Day in South Korea... which is the antithesis of Valentine's Day, I guess! In a good way. You see, here in South Korea, Valentine's Day (which falls on February 14th) is a day for girls to give presents, handmade chocolates, candies, and those silly stuffed animals, etc. to the boys they fancy... whereas on White Day (celebrated one month later, March 14th), boys are expected to return the favor! Which is all very funny to watch when you're out and about... storefront windows that were stocked with chocolate and bouquets and other such delicacies only four short weeks ago are now restocked and ready for round two... confectionary companies must love this! Hmmmm... and maybe dentists too. Happy White Day!

February 10, 2009

Full Moon

Yesterday was "Daeboreum" (or Great Full Moon), the Korean celebration of the first full moon in the Lunar New Year calendar. Several of my students asked me if I had eaten ogokbap for breakfast, which is a five-grain rice mixture. Other traditions on this day include cracking nuts with your teeth, which is thought to keep your teeth healthy all year. Or climbing nearby mountains, in order to catch the moonrise... which is said to give you good luck all year, if you're the first person to see it. Fun and games.

October 8, 2008

Festival of Light

I took an evening bus to Jinju after work last night to experience the Namgang Lantern Festival there. It was magical! The city's waterfront was bustling until about 2am, with people wandering up and down both sides of the Namgang river, and around a large fortress above it, admiring the many floating lanterns that were reflecting their colored brilliance onto dark, oily water. The festival has historical significance to these people, dating back to a period of Japanese invasion in 1592, when a Korean general used lanterns in the sky and torches on the river to send military signals to his troops. The soldiers also used lanterns to express their safety to family and supporting forces outside the fortress. The whole place reminded me of some sort of surreal dream, although sleep deprivation may have contributed to that. The diversity of the lanterns was amazing, ranging in size from larger-than-life, Disney-esque and rather garish, to the most exquisite handmade paper ones hanging in an archway. I spent most of my time in this tunnel of light, craning my neck to examine each one. They were by far my favorites, each lantern so different in its design, expressing the unique creativity of hundreds of individuals. It was beautiful.
Another favorite of the larger lanterns was this dragon, which actually moved and breathed real fire. I felt like the Paper Bag Princess standing beneath it's enormous head and moving claws.
Overall, a brilliant night. Slept a few hours in a nearby motel and then caught a morning bus back to Geoje-do, after a coffee and a quick browse through a Chinese photography exhibit in a local gallery. (Wish you were here to share this adventure with me: Ally-Lee, Isadora, and Beckstargirl! I think you three especially would've LOVED it.)