Showing posts with label South Korea. Show all posts
Showing posts with label South Korea. Show all posts

November 16, 2009

Bridging the Gap

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A Korean guy approached me in a coffeeshop yesterday afternoon, asking if he could sit down and chat for a few minutes. With the use of a cellphone translator, we were able to have twenty minutes of conversation in broken English and bits 'n' pieces of Korean. To some, this situation would potentially seem very awkward, but I've become quite accustomed to random interactions like these in Korea... where a child or adult decides that meeting me at a bus stop, in an elevator, or on a street corner, is a great opportunity to practice their English!
The craziest part about yesterday's conversation, though, was that at the end of it, this guy confides in me that this is the first time he's ever spoken to a foreigner. He's never traveled, lives in the same town he grew up in, and works as a waiter in a local Korean restaurant. This was the very first time he's ever spoken with an individual outside of his own cultural background and ethnic descent! How cool is that? I felt so privileged that I got to be someone's first.
Do you remember the first time you spoke with someone of another ethnic background? I'm guessing that most of my readers come from such ethnically diverse societies, potentially even within their own multi-generational family histories, that such a "first" is difficult to imagine! How about the first time you attempted conversation with someone whose language was different from your own?

November 11, 2009

Coffee and Cinnamon

My last few Wednesday mornings have been spent studying and sipping frothy coffee with friends and fellow ESL teachers...

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November 4, 2009

Hello Teacher!

Some of my amazing students... the youngest ones I teach this year!

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October 26, 2009

Love, Korea

Autumn beauty gleaned from a weekend wandering.

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October 11, 2009

A Korean Wedding

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I went to a Korean wedding today! One of my friends from work, Ceilia, got married to "her skinny man" (my nickname for him.) Everyone from the school was invited and in attendance, and we all ate dinner together after the ceremony, so it was quite a fun morning! When we arrived, we were directed to a tiny room where the bride sat perched like a frosted white cupcake on a settee, and people could take pictures of her, or have their picture taken with her. Poor thing, she looked so nervous! I did not envy her. People in the wedding hall lobby were milling about, meeting and greeting one another, mostly in business attire. To me, it looked more like a funeral than a wedding. A lot of black, and not too much festive color to be seen anywhere! It is not traditional in Korean culture to give gifts to the bride and groom, but rather to give money in a white envelope, which was collected by a group of hired staff at a long desk in the lobby. Friends and coworkers usually give about $50, family members give more. The ceremony had started before everyone was seated, in fact, there weren't enough seats for everyone, so most of our crew hung about near a side wall. The flowers, candles, and cake decorations were all fake/plastic, but looked elegant, and there was a giant photographic poster of the bride and groom in casual clothes on one wall (which was far too cheesy for my personal taste, but whatev.) The whole decor had a bit of a "wedding factory" feel, not so much the carefully planned and chosen details typical in weddings at home, where each wedding denotes the personal style of the couple. We listened to their vows and their parents words to each of them (that was the most beautiful part to me, the mothers were dressed in traditional Korean hanbok, and each gave their parting words of advice and wisdom to their son/daughter) and then a song was sung to them by a friend (a bit Disney-esque, to be honest.) Afterwards we all took group pictures together... first the family members, then the bride's friends, then the groom's friends. (The bride had a lot more friends than the groom, which was kind of funny to me, especially when he started calling up some of her friends to stand with him and fill in some obvious gaps.) As we left, there was another wedding party coming in to set up...

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September 26, 2009

Deceived by an Apple

I bought a new cleaning product from the mini-mart close to my apartment. They didn't have the one I usually buy in stock, and as I couldn't read any of the labels, I chose the one with a green apple on it, thinking it might have a nice fresh scent. Oh, Eve, will you never learn? Spent some of Saturday morning cleaning, and I'm pretty sure this product is high-content, if not pure, bleach. My bathroom smells like a swimming pool, and my head feels like it's swimming now too... from inhaling fumes in an enclosed space, while scrubbing tile grout on my hands and knees. Whew... strong stuff. But the bathroom is sparkling!


Oh, and more about my bathroom (I can't believe I haven't blogged about this already)... it has been quite the experience! My shower is open-concept... as in the shower head is mounted on the wall beside the sink, and there is a drain on the floor beneath the sink. So everything gets wet. I mean everything... the walls, the floor, the sink, mirror, toilet, and my towels if I forget to take them out. The toilet paper has a little plastic flap that protects it from getting drenched, and the power outlet also has a cover. But let me tell you... it is not pleasant to use the bathroom after showering.... for a while the toilet seat just stays wet. It kind of feels like a not-yet-trained child was there before you!
In winter, the tile floor is icy cold, as the bathroom's back wall is adjacent to the unheated hallway, and has none of that nice in-floor heating that is in the rest of the apartment. So I would stand, shivering, in the center of the circle of warmth that the hot water makes on the floor around me, and then scurry outta there as soon as possible. I guess it was good for water conservation! And I understand now why Koreans love their saunas and spas, in winter especially. You see them out in the streets most mornings and evenings, carrying a basket of toiletries, on their way to or from the public bathhouses. I haven't made it there yet, as I am told bathing suits are not permitted (men and women bathe separately, but together with their own sex) and I'm not sure I'm quite brave enough for that! A pleasant feature in my bathroom, however, are the seahorse stickers on the floor, which I think are supposed to be grips for your feet. Most are missing parts of their fins or tails, but this one is perfectly intact!

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I don't think any shower experience could be as bad as that time in an Ecuadorian hotel, when I electrocuted myself (twice) in the shower, by trying to change the position of the shower head, with my wet hand. The shower head had unenclosed wires wrapped around it, and I felt a current of electricity, in my fingers through to my elbow! Conversely, I don't think any shower experience could be as wonderful as biodegradeable shampoo in the lake in summer at home, or as peculiar as showering in a solar-heated makeshift bathroom in Fiji, with cracks beneath the door wide enough for a rooster to stroll in and have a look, and numerous geckos flitting around the ceiling above my head. Or... as beautifully simplistic and memorable as that gorgeous sunny last day at camp in Ecuador, when three of us showered out of a bucket drawn up from the camp's well. Really, my bathroom here is relatively quite sophisticated!

September 22, 2009

The One-Year Mark

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I know I said it was only a one-year contract, but I've extended my time with the school here for a few months more... the plan at present is to be home to Nova Scotia for Christmas!!!

September 6, 2009

The Cultural Cringe

There are three things I don't think I can ever get used too, no matter how well-adjusted I've become to Korean culture over time...
1. Children that bow to me. I'm all for respecting your elders, but something about these little guys bowing their heads to me, makes me very uncomfortable. It always catches me off-guard, whether it happens on a street corner or in a school hallway... I get the cultural cringe. I do admit I've started bowing to my elders here, out of respect for them and this cultural custom, but I guess I just don't feel worthy of such a display of public submission myself. I'd rather a high-five or a "Hi, teacher!" or even just a shy smile, but some of these children have been taught to be very respectful of their teachers. Others, of course, are little rugrats, of similar breed to those found in every other country I've visited! Don't worry, there's always an element of craziness in my classroom.
2. The parasol-carrying women.
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Au contraire to the deep, nut-brown tan craze of white North Americans, Korean women do their utmost to protect their skin. It's probably a healthier way to go, but carrying these frilly sun shields reminds me of an 18th-century English novel... I've even seen skin-whitening sunscreen and face bleaching creams here! I am personally quite fond of the intoxicating feeling of sunbeams kissing my face, and will probably pay for it, in later life. I get scolded by women here for standing in the sun instead of the shade at bus stops! It's really quite amusing. But hey, I've always thought wrinkles were beautiful, they are like storylines, displayed on faces.
3. No seatbelts. I always do a double-take to see babies bouncing on their father's knee while he drives the car, three monkeys (children) tumbling around in the back seat, or two crammed together on the front passenger seat, no belts. It just amazes me, especially with the number of traffic accidents around here. How many times do we have to make mistakes before we learn from them? Seatbelts, people... seatbelts!!!

August 16, 2009

Summer Nights

Campfire last night at Gujora Beach with friends. We even managed to make s'mores! Although the marshmallows were pink and the cookies were not quite honey grahams. It's all about improvisation when you live in a foreign country and attempt to recreate your own culture...

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June 14, 2009

An Interesting Fact

I used to just tan straight-up brown like Pocahontas in the summahtime... now i'm getting freckles. Aaaaaand lots of them!
Ok, so maybe that's not interesting to you. Did you know that a popular Korean dish is live squid? Like still moving, squirming-in-your-mouth live squid? I haven't sampled it yet.


March 20, 2009

Sidestreet Signage


It's a colorful world in which we live!

March 14, 2009

Happy White Day


It is White Day in South Korea... which is the antithesis of Valentine's Day, I guess! In a good way. You see, here in South Korea, Valentine's Day (which falls on February 14th) is a day for girls to give presents, handmade chocolates, candies, and those silly stuffed animals, etc. to the boys they fancy... whereas on White Day (celebrated one month later, March 14th), boys are expected to return the favor! Which is all very funny to watch when you're out and about... storefront windows that were stocked with chocolate and bouquets and other such delicacies only four short weeks ago are now restocked and ready for round two... confectionary companies must love this! Hmmmm... and maybe dentists too. Happy White Day!

March 6, 2009

Signs of Spring

Blue Sky and Blossoms, Geojedo
There have been a lot of changes going around here in the past little while! Spring is just around the corner, and has been teasing us with some gorgeous weather and warm winds that make you want to skip alongside the schoolchildren, then immediately crushing your spirits with the wicked cold days that follow. If you are not carefully monitoring the weather forecast, this means you might get caught in a rainstorm without a jacket, or find yourself overdressed on a milder day, stripping off layers as the afternoon progresses. And on more than one occasion I have found myself powerwalking to get home from work, shoulders hunched against the cutting wind, and sockless feet frozen for being silly enough to be hopefully underdressed on a winter's day! But the plants and trees seem not to have been fooled... they know for certain spring is coming and some of them have even dared to blossom! I took this photo on the way home from church last weekend; stunning white blossoms against a blue sky. The month of March is also the start of a new school year in Korea, so back-to-school specials are on sale at the local department store, and kids are sporting new haircuts, new shoes, and uniforms, with great anticipation and excitement for new classmates and schools and teachers. I finished up evaluations for my former students last month, and said hello to a whole new crew of children this week, with only a few familiar faces. We have also had a big staff turnover at work, with three of the foreign English teachers finishing up their one-year contracts, and three new ones arriving to take their place. And we have a new Korean teacher as well! So I've been busying myself with farewells and welcome dinners, class introductions, and getting acquainted with some new curriculum. Other changes have been a bit more subtle... like the grey hairs I've been finding on my head! (No jokes.) Or more importantly, the times where I've recognized a change within myself, in thought or in attitude. Often, I'll discover these things in conversation or community with other people, but each time I'm made aware of it, it blows my mind to see this internal evidence, this life-changing power that the grace and love of Jesus is making in me. I know I still have so much to learn, but it amazes me to encounter these signs of spring within, or to observe them in my friends. I love the scene in The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe when Aslan breathes life back into the stone statues that the White Witch has frozen in her courtyard. I feel like that gradual, gentle, warmth that eventually flows into all parts and restores to life what once was dead and cold is really truly happening in me. And in many people around me. I know that sometimes we experience what feels like a wintertime or a desert place along our life's journeys, but isn't it a beautiful promise, this hope of eternal Spring? "We do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, inwardly we are being renewed day by day!" (2 Cor. 4:16) Oh, that He would look at me and see, His image reflecting back at Him through me...

February 10, 2009

Full Moon

Yesterday was "Daeboreum" (or Great Full Moon), the Korean celebration of the first full moon in the Lunar New Year calendar. Several of my students asked me if I had eaten ogokbap for breakfast, which is a five-grain rice mixture. Other traditions on this day include cracking nuts with your teeth, which is thought to keep your teeth healthy all year. Or climbing nearby mountains, in order to catch the moonrise... which is said to give you good luck all year, if you're the first person to see it. Fun and games.

February 5, 2009

Rainy Day in Asia

When it rains, the street vendors, who sell everything from fruit and fish to toothbrushes and slippers, open up these giant rainbow umbrellas that remind me of summer at the beach in North Carolina. They sit beneath them, amidst their wares, chatting with their neighboring vendors, as the deluge pours down. I pass them on my way to and from work. The rainy day commute can be quite dangerous at times! Being a good head-and-a-half taller than the majority of the Koreans I meet, it seems my eyes are directly aligned with the pointed edges of their umbrellas, which fill the streets in a colorful pedestrian rainbow. I have suffered, on one such occasion, a tiny slice on my cheek, just below my eye, from the clawing edge of a pink-and-white Hello Kitty rainshield. And as umbrellas have a way of obscuring vision, both of the carrier and the raincoat-wearing individual, my walk to work involves more than the usual share of bumping and jostling, I have to duck and dodge as well!

February 1, 2009

Treading Water


I am, in fact, still alive. Contrary to popular belief. For those of you (ahem) five or so blog stalkers of this site, I would like to extend my apologies for the lack of posts. January is winter vacation month for my students, which in another country might mean they take a break from study and actually enjoy a much-deserved rest, but here in South Korea, they sign up for extra morning academies... Math, English, etc. Which means, I have been teaching morning classes, as well as my usual afternoon and evenings. Not much spare time/mental energy left for blogging at the end of the day, I'm afraid. I feel like I've been treading water all month, just barely staying on top of my work. We finished morning classes on Friday, however, so I am back to the usual routine tomorrow... and here's hoping... surfingsundays.blogspot.com is back in business too! More to come. Stay tuned. Peace, love, and kimchi. Out.

December 23, 2008

Tired and Wired

My students are off-the-wall this week. They are all either really tired or really wired. As am I... but that's nothing new! Haha... here are some of the crazy critters I teach. My Tuesday/Thursday Fingerprints crew:
... Tired
This is Anna. She's a gem... always listening and paying attention, and I can count on her to translate for her less-attentive amigos. "This page!" "Here!" "Listen to Fiona-teacher!"

...Wired!
This little monkey earned himself the nickname "Bad Andy" before I got to Korea. He's actually not bad at all, just high-activity. Today he decided that instead of coloring in his book, he would use his pink marker to decorate my sweater... and camera lens. We have a special relationship. One minute I'm scolding him for throwing crayons around the classroom, the next minute he's running up to spontaneously hug me in the hallway.
My older classes are a bit silly these days too. Either falling asleep at their desks, or so chatty in Korean/English/Konglish that we get no book work done. I think they are all in need of a much-deserved holiday... which starts tomorrow! We have Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day off, which will be lovely! Some of these kids won't really get a rest, though... their parents have signed them up to ski camps, English holiday programs, or another extra-curricular activity.
In one of my classes this week, we were having a discussion about hobbies, and I asked them what they like to do in their free time. One student thought about it and replied, "Teacher, we don't really have free time!" Sad but true. A Korean teacher, who I work closely with, told me that when she was in High School, she would leave her home at 6:30am and not return to it until 10:30pm. And then she would finish her homework. We are busy busy bees over here in Korea!

December 1, 2008

Tornado Season 5

I had no idea what I was getting myself into. One of the teachers at my school had some discounted tickets to a Muay Thai boxing match last night, and a whole crew of us ended up going. Muay Thai is Thailand's national sport, and is a form of martial arts, in which fighters use eight points of contact; their hands, shins, elbows and knees. This is the main way it differs from Western boxing, where only two points of contact are used (the fists) or other common forms, where four points are used (the fists and feet). The rounds started off with two young boys... who didn't look any older than seven or eight! The audience was so well-behaved. There were no screaming soccer moms or ranting hockey fans to be seen! There was some polite clapping and a little cheering, but for anyone who has been to a hockey game in Canada or a rugby match in New Zealand, you might have mistaken this sports arena for a movie theater, everyone sitting so still and staring at the screen. Their silence is not to be mistaken for disinterest, however, because there were moments where the Koreans were so intense on what was happening in the ring, it felt like a whole room full of people all holding their breath at the same time! There were competitors from various countries; Thailand, Japan, Korea, and one guy from Canada, to name a few. Things got a little bloodier as the rounds progressed, one instance in particular where a bloody nose made foot placement a little slippery, and they had to pause the round to wipe up the mess with a white towel. My stomach got a little queasy at that point! I observed some interesting pre-round rituals that various individuals practiced, some kneeling down before entering the ring, some head to head with their teacher/coach for a moment of prayer before beginning, some parading around to four corners of the ring, giving their respect to spectators in each direction. A few fighters wore interesting headdresses, that circled their heads and jutted out at the back, with colorful tassels hanging from the ends. This was removed by the fighter's coach before they began the match. It was all very interesting.... witnessing my first boxing match, a Muay Thai event in South Korea. Anyways, here are some more pics...




November 10, 2008

Night Hike

I tried to fit in a hike before sunset last night, and made it to the top of a nearby mountain just in time to capture some of these sweet shots of a glowing Geoje city and the sun setting over the water. The ships looked amazing all lit up. Geoje Island boasts two major shipyards; Daewoo (or DSME) Shipyard which is in nearby city, Okpo, and Samsung Heavy Industries, which is pictured below. It was a lovely end to the day, but I had to scramble down in the dark, and my cat-eye night vision wasn't working... I ended up slipping and twisting my ankle. Nothing too serious (and I didn't smash the camera, thankfully!) but my foot is still quite stiff and sore today, so I think I'll be giving 'er a rest for awhile.




November 8, 2008

A Weekend Wandering

Spent a lazy Saturday exploring the bustling metropolis of Busan, with Jen and AJ, Dan and Lindz (whom I will henceforth refer to as "The Marrieds") and Kate, one of the teachers I work with. It was a rather overcast day so we mostly just passed the time window-shopping, people-watching, and browsing through some art galleries. Highlights of my day include:
1. The wonderful man who nearly drove into us on his bicycle, grinned at us and yelled something in Korean... then proceeded to make faces and peace signs at us until AJ walked over to talk to him, at which point he hugged AJ's arm like he was clutching a teddy bear and didn't look like he would ever let go. AJ, kindhearted bloke that he is, simply hugged the man back.


2. These young lads who were jammin' it out on a park bench. I recognized the Once soundtrack from a distance... they were singing in English! Couldn't resist joining them...

3. Our $3-apiece Galbi meal at this restaurant Kate found; it was very inexpensive and it tasted great! Galbi is a popular Korean meal, usually pork or beef ribs marinated in garlic, soy sauce, and ginger and cooked on a grill in front of you. Actually, they usually bring you the meat raw, and you cook it yourself. You wrap the meat in a leaf, adding some veggies, kimchi, and various sauces, and then munch on it. Rabbit-style. All the little side dishes are shared amongst the diners, and everyone dips their chopsticks into the communal bowls.
4. And last but not least, this cozy grandpa sweater I bought from a second-hand market stall... I love it because it has little grey kiwi birds knitted into it! Anyone who knows my fondness for New Zealand, will understand my delight in finding this treasure of a sweater, just at the turning of the seasons...
...although some of my comrades seem to think they look like malnourished elephants. Perhaps you can settle the argument. Cast your vote here in the comments section, if you so desire! Kiwi, elephant, or... other?